Our Heart for Your Family
In honor of precious lives lost to violence in our community, Christian Families Against Destructive Decisions (CFADD) is investing $100,000 to equip 100 teenagers with Christ-centered decision-making skills. This scholarship program exists to strengthen families, build safer communities, and empower young people to choose life-giving paths.
Healing Hearts
Supporting families through grief while building hope for the future
Strengthening Families
Creating deeper connections between parents and teens
Safer Communities
Empowering youth to make decisions that protect and uplift
What Your Family Receives
$1,000 Scholarship Value Includes:
- Complete tuition for 10-week “Winning with Christ 2.0” course
- All course materials including workbooks, devotionals, and resources
- Parent-teen kickoff retreat to launch the journey together
- Three parent workshops running parallel to teen sessions
- Digital badge and transcript letter for college applications
- Community service project participation and leadership opportunities
- Ongoing support network with other scholarship families
For Your Teen
- • Practical decision-making framework
- • Biblical foundation for life choices
- • Peer mentorship and accountability
- • Leadership development opportunities
- • College application enhancement
- • Emotional wisdom and coping skills
For You as Parents
- • Improved parent-teen communication
- • Tools to support wise choices at home
- • Connection with other committed families
- • Understanding of teen development
- • Strengthened family relationships
- • Community support network
“Winning with Christ 2.0” Curriculum
A comprehensive 10-week journey combining biblical wisdom with practical life skills
1
Identity & Purpose
Genesis 1:27; Ephesians 2:10
Teens discover their God-given worth and unique calling, building a foundation of identity rooted in Christ rather than peer approval or worldly success.
2
Decision-Making Framework
Proverbs 3:5-6
Learn the “3-R Model” – Reflect on consequences, Receive godly counsel, Respond with wisdom. Practice through real-life scenarios and case studies.
3
Friends & Influence
1 Corinthians 15:33
Understand the power of peer influence and learn to discern healthy friendships. Develop skills to be a positive influence while resisting negative pressure.
4
Freedom & Boundaries
Galatians 5:1
Explore how healthy boundaries create true freedom. Address digital ethics, social media wisdom, and relationship boundaries that protect and empower.
5
Emotional Wisdom
Philippians 4:6-7
Develop emotional intelligence through biblical principles. Learn to recognize triggers, manage stress, and use prayer and healthy practices for emotional regulation.
6
Conflict & Forgiveness
Matthew 18:15-17
Master biblical conflict resolution and the power of forgiveness. Practice through role-plays and real-situation applications.
7
Substance & Risk Avoidance
1 Corinthians 6:19-20
Understand the facts about substances and risky behaviors. Hear powerful testimonies and develop practical refusal scripts and alternative activities.
8
Vision & Goal-Setting
Habakkuk 2:2
Learn SMART goal-setting within God’s purposes. Create personal life-mapping exercises and develop practical steps toward positive futures.
9
Service & Leadership
Mark 10:43-44
Plan and execute a community service project. Develop servant leadership skills and understand how giving back strengthens communities.
10
Legacy Week – Celebration & Commissioning
2 Timothy 2:2
Parent-teen celebration event featuring student testimonies, presentation of achievements, and commissioning to be difference-makers in the community.
Parent Partnership Program
We believe lasting change happens when families grow together
Three Interactive Parent Workshops
Workshop 1: Understanding Your Teen’s World
Learn about current teen pressures, communication styles, and how to create safe spaces for honest conversations.
Workshop 2: Supporting Wise Choices at Home
Practical tools for reinforcing positive decision-making, setting appropriate consequences, and building trust.
Workshop 3: Building Your Family Legacy
Create family mission statements, establish traditions that reinforce values, and plan for ongoing growth.
Additional Parent Benefits
- Parent Support Network: Connect with other committed families facing similar challenges and victories.
- Resource Library: Access to books, articles, and tools for ongoing family development.
- Ongoing Support: Monthly check-ins and access to family life coaching resources.
- Family Achievement Recognition: Celebrate milestones and growth in your parent-teen relationship.
Building Safer, Stronger Communities
The Ripple Effect of Wise Decisions
When one teenager learns to make wise, Christ-centered decisions, it impacts their family, friend group, school, and neighborhood. Our goal is to create a network of 100 young leaders who become catalysts for positive change throughout Spartanburg County.
Reduced Risk Behaviors
Teens equipped with decision-making skills are less likely to engage in substance abuse, violence, and other harmful activities.
Improved Academic Success
Students with strong decision-making frameworks show improved focus, goal-setting, and educational outcomes.
Community Service Leadership
Program graduates become active community volunteers and leaders, addressing local needs and building connections.
Our Community Goals
- Create 100 teen peer mentors and leaders
- Strengthen 100 family relationships
- Complete 10 community service projects
- Build network of supportive families
- Reduce teen involvement in risky behaviors
- Increase college and career readiness
What Success Looks Like
Teen Achievements
- • Improved communication with parents and family members
- • Better academic performance and goal achievement
- • Positive peer relationships and influence
- • Confidence in decision-making abilities
- • Active involvement in community service
- • Clear vision for future goals and education
- • Strong spiritual foundation and prayer life
- • Leadership roles in school and community
Family Transformation
- • Deeper, more trusting parent-teen relationships
- • Improved family communication and conflict resolution
- • Shared family values and mission
- • Reduced family stress and tension
- • Stronger spiritual life and practices
- • Connection with other supportive families
- • Pride in teen’s growth and achievements
- • Tools for ongoing family development
Measuring Our Impact
We track success through multiple measures to ensure the program creates lasting change:
Academic Indicators
- • Grade improvements
- • Attendance rates
- • College applications
Behavioral Measures
- • Decision-making quality
- • Peer relationships
- • Risk behavior avoidance
Family Health
- • Communication quality
- • Conflict resolution
- • Shared activities
Frequently Asked Questions
Who is eligible for the scholarship?
Students aged 13-18 (grades 8-12) who live or attend school in the affected neighborhood areas. Applicants must submit a “Why I Choose to Rise Up” essay or video, obtain a community endorsement letter, and commit to full program participation with their parent/guardian.
What if my family has different religious beliefs?
While our program is Christ-centered, we respect all families and focus on universal principles of wise decision-making, character development, and healthy relationships. Families of all backgrounds have found value in the practical life skills taught, even when they don’t share our specific faith perspective.
How much time commitment is required?
Teens attend one 2-hour session per week for 10 weeks, plus a kickoff retreat and final celebration. Parents attend 3 workshops (2 hours each) and the family events. Total commitment is approximately 30 hours over 10 weeks for maximum impact.
What happens if my teen can’t attend every session?
We understand life happens. We allow up to 2 missed sessions with makeup opportunities. However, the program’s power comes from the group dynamic and progressive curriculum, so consistent attendance is crucial for success.
Will this help with college applications?
Yes! Graduates receive a digital badge and transcript letter documenting their completion of decision-making education, community service hours, and leadership development. Many colleges value this type of character formation and community engagement.
How are scholarship recipients selected?
A review panel including CFADD leadership, community influencers, an educator, and youth pastor evaluate applications based on the essay/video submission, community endorsement, demonstrated need, and commitment to the program’s values and requirements.
What ongoing support is available after the program?
Graduates become part of our CFADD alumni network with access to ongoing mentorship, advanced workshops, college preparation support, and opportunities to mentor future program participants. We maintain relationships with families long-term.
Can my teen participate if they’ve had past behavioral issues?
Absolutely. Our program is designed specifically for teens who want to make positive changes, regardless of their past. We believe every young person deserves the opportunity to learn and grow. Past challenges often increase motivation for positive change.
Ready to Rise Up?
Join 99 other families investing in wisdom, character, and community transformation
Next Steps:
- 1. Complete the scholarship application
- 2. Write your “Why I Choose to Rise Up” essay
- 3. Obtain community endorsement letter
- 4. Submit by the deadline
- 5. Wait for selection notification
Questions or Need Help?
855-752-3233
1425 John B. White Blvd, Suite A
Spartanburg, SC 29306